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Monday, October 13, 2008

THE RIGHT ONE! - LOVE-

Based on my survey! 6 out of 10 people agree that LOVE is the most interesting topic among the rest, and only 4 says that it was something else!!! not bad result, I would say.
It is indeed interesting for some reason. Different kind of person relate to this topic no matter what races and their culture are.
It is difficult for somebody to search for someone out there who's willing to be with them for the rest of their life and love them as no one could ever do! and able to stand whoever he is or how devil he is to others!
We always fall-in-love sure! because we are created by love, capable to love and to be love! but of course it's not easy, isn't? Love has it's peak of happiness and always has pain in it. When love strike our way, there's no escape at all, and when once we stop and trying to kill it, the more complicated it will be!
We are all searching for the right one; unfortunately, sometimes when we keep on seeking for that someone, the more elusive it is. We are meeting heaps of people! Unconsciously, in our daily life, even when we are just walking along the street,whether in a shopping mall, in the park, or we are in a pub. (bars), cinema, and other public places. or even in a cyber world!!! the world of the chat rooms in the internet. And of course we're sure that we will meet someone there, who'll stand-out among others; you may attract to one person instantly!; You will approach him and you will have this thought to get to know him... Asking for his details! once you feel a connection in him.. And that's the start!!! later on you'll go out as a friend or even better, because things happens so quick for the two of you,you have now a mutual understanding, lead you to becoming boyfriend/girlfriend in just a snap of a finger?cool!!! yeah, now a days time flies so quickly that you may not have notice things turn out to something momentarily, that it is possible for someone you meet an hour ago and later on he's already your mate! but it doesn't end there! The longer you've spent time together and the more you've get to know him, the more affection you get!when the connection between you and him is going well, the deeper attention it will be.
then dating ... dating ... dating ... love... love ... love ... love !!!!! L.O.V.E - LOVE
At this point we thought that.. "this is it".... "He is perfect", "I finally found him", "He is the right one", " I love him so much!", "I can't imagine a life without him" but..STOP......................... -I will say NO!!!!!!
Then here you go... after a week? (may be a week is ridiculous) maybe a month/s or years later? What will happen, you think? There will be a big bomb out of your way! that will suddenly explode... that even a concrete and metal material will destroy!
Life's changes so fast! so there's no assurance, there could be a catastrophe that will distract your way, you know what i mean? I know you do!.... There could be lots of instances why?! maybe his love vanished in time, maybe his getting bored, maybe he met someone else or probably you are miles apart to each other, that at first it may not seems a problem in your relationship but as time passes by it's getting dull and suddenly you may get tired in a long-distance relationship and you'll think that it will not gonna work that way!. And that's the end!!!
I concluded...in our minds we assume things that they will be the one whom we'll get old with.... The one that we're looking for so long.. but sadly they weren't the right one that we've been looking for!.... The phase of mending will come and again just like a cycle of a hands clock we're going to look for someone again! THE RIGHT ONE....

As I leave a quotation like this......

"Sometimes, One's touches
our life, so gently....
just like a wind
gliding beneath us
...but just like a wind
they'll blew away...
so quickly,
too late to recognized
that they're gone
as our dreams vanished too.
by:ghen

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

whew.. ryt.. ryt.. ryt..! hehe..

aq first comment mu ah..

tama nman ikaw eh..
wait.. anu point of view mu sa relationship na may kahati ka?! wla lng.. just asking.. hehe..

Anonymous said...

anna pla toH.. hehe.. dun kna lng reply sa msg ng friendster q..